Post by The Great Aztec Joe on Sept 18, 2010 5:19:37 GMT -8
I am in my mid Sixties. One thing that is obvious to me is that most women do not understand what motivates men.
Most men run on instinct. Instinct in the wild tells men to sew their seed in as many places as possible in order to ensure that "Your" seed has an increased chance of survival. To that end, men instinctively look for the most healthy breeding partners.
Can the woman feed the child? (Do her tits look full and capable?)
Does her body look young? (Older women miscarry and deliver dead offspring so youth has an instinctual premium.)
Does her body carry traits that would suggest that a male child would be bigger, taller, more intelligent? (A man instinctively wants to breed up, not down.)
Now, with all of that in mind, men instinctively chase younger women with big tits, round hips and additional features that are pleasing to their subconscious brains. (If they do not chase after them, they, at least, look at them in magazines, movies, television and in public.)
It is only with modern civilization that men are expected to settle down and pair off with just one partner and love and cherish her for the rest of their lives. I am convinced that women created religion so that they could have security in their lives. Men who are religious are usually great providers, so it works for the women.
But what if a man (who does not know why he does the things that he instinctively does -- Like Tiger Woods or Bill Clinton, or John Fitzgerald Kennedy.) does act out occasionally? What do you do then, destroy the marriage like Tiger's wife did (Hell she got a lot of money from that fool.), or like the other two wives acknowledge that men sometimes lose control and take him back (over and over and over and over) again.
Unless your husband is strongly religious, if you let yourself go too much, (Plain face, Thunder thighs, Sagging tits, that "run down" look........) his instinct will have him looking at women who fulfill the earlier prerequisites for a good breeding partner.
Understand this and you will understand why men do what they do and why there are so many midlife crisis situations. I have known many Christians pastors who have strayed when their wives let their personal appearance go to sheeet.
My advice to you is, "If the fence need painting, paint it. If the boobs need to be held up by a support bra, hold them up. If the thighs hit the door jam when you enter the room, diet and exercise like hell, or he might be practicing pushups with a woman who still looks young." Instinct overrides most moral enjoinders for the majority of men. As society gets further and further away from organized religion (a well documented fact), fewer and fewer people are bothering to get married, and those that do are getting divorced in ever increasing numbers.
To get and keep a man, women have two choices, look eternally young, or get religion back on the front burner again.
Most men run on instinct. Instinct in the wild tells men to sew their seed in as many places as possible in order to ensure that "Your" seed has an increased chance of survival. To that end, men instinctively look for the most healthy breeding partners.
Can the woman feed the child? (Do her tits look full and capable?)
Does her body look young? (Older women miscarry and deliver dead offspring so youth has an instinctual premium.)
Does her body carry traits that would suggest that a male child would be bigger, taller, more intelligent? (A man instinctively wants to breed up, not down.)
Now, with all of that in mind, men instinctively chase younger women with big tits, round hips and additional features that are pleasing to their subconscious brains. (If they do not chase after them, they, at least, look at them in magazines, movies, television and in public.)
It is only with modern civilization that men are expected to settle down and pair off with just one partner and love and cherish her for the rest of their lives. I am convinced that women created religion so that they could have security in their lives. Men who are religious are usually great providers, so it works for the women.
But what if a man (who does not know why he does the things that he instinctively does -- Like Tiger Woods or Bill Clinton, or John Fitzgerald Kennedy.) does act out occasionally? What do you do then, destroy the marriage like Tiger's wife did (Hell she got a lot of money from that fool.), or like the other two wives acknowledge that men sometimes lose control and take him back (over and over and over and over) again.
Unless your husband is strongly religious, if you let yourself go too much, (Plain face, Thunder thighs, Sagging tits, that "run down" look........) his instinct will have him looking at women who fulfill the earlier prerequisites for a good breeding partner.
Understand this and you will understand why men do what they do and why there are so many midlife crisis situations. I have known many Christians pastors who have strayed when their wives let their personal appearance go to sheeet.
My advice to you is, "If the fence need painting, paint it. If the boobs need to be held up by a support bra, hold them up. If the thighs hit the door jam when you enter the room, diet and exercise like hell, or he might be practicing pushups with a woman who still looks young." Instinct overrides most moral enjoinders for the majority of men. As society gets further and further away from organized religion (a well documented fact), fewer and fewer people are bothering to get married, and those that do are getting divorced in ever increasing numbers.
To get and keep a man, women have two choices, look eternally young, or get religion back on the front burner again.
